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Changing the Focus of Ejaculation

focus

Here is a strategy that may work for some of you…

Right before you are about to ejaculate, rather than focusing on something that turns you on (the female’s breasts, vagina, buttocks, legs) at the moment, put your focus on something else that you are part of during the sexual experience. For example, try focusing on the sweat that is dripping from your forehead or the coolness of the air conditioner blowing onto the pores of your lower back. The more specific the focus, the better it is to delay your ejaculation.

Try this out. It may work for some. Have faith and don’t give up to easily. It might take some practice and effort to get it to work just right for you.

Don’t Rush Masturbation or Sex

Don't Rush Me

It’s been awhile since I last posted here on PE Awareness. So, today I wanted to provide our readers with some advice on how to train and increase your sexual stamina.

The ideea is still the same idea as we keep on mentioning in our past posts. You want to delay your ejaculation for as long as possible. Delaying your ejaculation increases your semen ejaculation, your intensity of orgasm, your future ability to last longer, strengthens your PC Muslce, and improves your sex life.

The next time you have sex with your partner or masturbate, make sure to stop and take a 30 second break prior to ejaculation. You should try doing this as many times as possible. You may want to vary the speed and pressure of your thrusts or motions to better control your ejaculation. How long or how many times should you do this before ejaculating? Well, first ask yourself how long would you like to last in bed? Use this number as your guide to how long you practice this regimen before ejaculating. After enough practice the amount of breaks will become less and you will probably be able to increase the duration of this regimen. That is music to both your ears and your sexual partners as well!

Premature Ejacualtion - Natural Selection at Work

Monkey

Male monekys have marathon sexual encounters with female monkeys. This however would trigger jealousy in other male monkeys and strike up violence. So male monkeys that were able to ejaculate more quickly had an advantage to ejaculate and produce offspring without casuing chaos.

Too bad we couldn’t live simple lives like monkeys do…

Stretching the PC on Your Drive to Work

I found that working on the PC muscle on my drive to and from work had been very successful for my premature ejaculation.

Here is my routine that you can follow and modify to fit your work schedule:
I would hold my PC muscle for as long as I could and release. Then I would take a brief 3 second break and repeat the clench again. I would do this from the beginning of my drive when I left the driveway of my house until I reached the parking lot of my office building. On my return from work, I would start at the parking lot of my office building and continue until I reached the driveway of my house. I would do this Monday through Friday only. The weekends were my free days (rewarding myself for my completed hard work).

Feel free to modify my schedule and let me know how it goes for you!

Premature Ejaculation - On and Off

Have you ever had those days where sometimes you can last longer in bed? Wouldn’t it be great if we could do this every time we had a sexual encounter?

Well, I noticed that sometimes I am able to last longer than other times. So what? Well, this shows that there is definitely room for improvement and that all I need to do is tweak my body so it can perform for longer periods of time.

Let’s look at the flip side. If I were not able to last during sex every single time, then this would mean that I would probably lose all hope in improving my sexual performance. The reason for the loss of hope is that I am not able to compare my failure to any successful occurrences. This leads to me thinking that I cannot cure my premature ejaculation naturally (with exercises and practice).

So, the good news is that I discovered that it is possible for me to improve my sexual latency because I have had actual sexual encounters where I was able to last longer during sex. In conclusion, I now understand that premature ejaculation is truly curable with practice.

I hope all of our readers take this insight to heart.

Confidence Helps Cure PE?

Confidence Cures Premature Ejaculation

Did you know that being confident about your body and self can actually help cure your premature ejaculation? It has been proven that when men began taking care of their bodies, their ejaculation latency time was extended. The experimental subjects were introduced to a regimen that included: working-out, eating healthy, incorporating better grooming regimens, and performing PE exercises. The results were extremely positive in helping fix the subject’s premature ejaculation.

Working out helped build the subjects self confidence. After several weeks of hitting the gym, subjects started liking their self image. Working-out also released endorphins in their brains. These chemicals exude the “positive feelings” of everyday life. With extra positive energy in their lives, the subjects were less anxious in the bedroom and were able to focus on sexual control.

Eating healthy helped heal premature ejaculation as well. Why so? Well, when the body was healthy it was able to perform more efficiently. This should be pretty self explanatory. A healthy subject provided their body with power and the well being to accomplish their sexual goals.

The men in the experiment also modified their looks by dressing more nicely and grooming themselves on a daily basis. These male subjects were looking good and feeling good! Not only was this beneficial for the subjects, they felt confident and improved their day to day decisions. This type of confidence allowed subjects to conquer their deepest insecurities (premature ejaculation). This was a crucial step for curing the subjects’ premature ejaculation.

The last but most important thing, were performing PE exercises on a daily basis. The PE exercises were necessary to develop stronger PC muscles in the subjects. The techniques that were practiced included: visual exercises, stimulation, and pc flexes. The visual exercises required subjects to sit and meditate for 15 minutes a day and pictured themselves mastering the art of sex. The start and stop technique was also practiced 3 – 5 times a week. It required the subject to masturbate or have intercourse and then pause right before ejaculation. The pause usually lasted for 10 - 30 seconds before stimulation was then continued and repeated. This process was usually repeated a total of 5 - 10 times depending on the subjects severity of premature ejaculation. These subjects were also performing kegel exercises (also known as pc flexes) 5 times a week on their drive to and from work.

If these male subjects were able to conquer it, you can do it as well!

Stress & Anxiety Causes Premature Ejaculation

Stress Leads to Premature Ejaculation

Try to relieve yourself from stress and or anxiety. Studies have shown that when stress or anxiety levels are high during sexual intercourse, males are likely to ejaculate more quickly. Stress and anxiety hormones play a huge role in ejaculation. Why do you think popping anti-depressant pills as a temporary fix for premature ejaculation has been so popular this past decade? The reason is because anti-depressants make you feel happy, feel at ease, and feel free from worries.

If you want to avoid popping pills, try to relieve stress in your life naturally. I suggest you begin to work out, exercise, and try yoga. These activities help to build a more relaxed self. With anxiety and stress levels out of the picture, you may now last longer during sex.

Sleep Deprivation Casues PE

Sleep to Prevent Premature Ejaculation

I was reading a medical journal that was talking about how getting a good night’s rest could actually imporve many things in your life.

The primary thing that shocked me was that sleeping right could improve your sexual stamina. This was shocking to me when I first read it; however, the article explained how serotonin levels were lower when one was sleep deprived. Lower serotonin levels had many side effects; one being premature ejaculation in males. Sleep deprevation directly correlated with low serotonin levels. For this reason, sleep deprevation (low serotonin levels) led patients to depression, anxiety disorders, inability to focus, and paranoia as well.

Sleep more guys, it’s truly good for you!

Understanding the Vagina

Vagina

A woman’s vagina is tightest during the initial stages of penetration. However, as a woman becomes more aroused, two very crucial things happen to her vagina.

1) Her vagina begins to secrete more fluid for lubrication purposes. The lubricating fluid is created so that when the man is thrusting inside the woman’s vagina, the friction caused by the thrusting will not pain the woman. This is great for the man because with less friction, it allows the man to last longer during sexual intercourse.

2) Her vagina expands. This is great because with less friction, it allows the man to last longer during sexual intercourse as well.

So even before you start sexual intercourse, make sure you warm your girl up with plenty of foreplay. You want your girl to be as aroused as possible. Think of it this way: the more aroused she is, the less friction on your penis during intercourse. When there is less friction on the penis during intercourse, you can last longer. Remember, practice makes perfect!

LifeStyles Extra Strength Condom - Great for Premature Ejaculation

Lifestyles Extra Stength Condom

This post will be a review about a great condom I personally encountered.

Sex is a wonderful thing, but it can be a disaster for any male who suffers from premature ejaculation. For those of you who are not completely cured from your premature ejaculation and still want to have sex with your partner, try using this particular condom. The reason why this condom is different from other condoms is that it is thick and durable. This condom is one of the thickest condoms on the market (.0035 inches thick).

This condom works wonders! For those of you who are skeptical of this post. I did not write this post to because I was paid to do so. Instead, I wrote this post with intention to help those of you who suffer from premature ejaculation; yet, still want to have sex with your partner.