Lasting Longer with New Partners
Jun 20, 2011 in
PE Miscellaneous
I was talking with a friend of mine who also suffers from a less severe case of premature ejaculation. He was telling me how he usually performed quite well with new sexual partners. However, once he got comfortable with his sexual partner, he began having premature ejaculation.
This is a bit of an odd case because premature ejaculation usually happens when anxiety is present. In his case it seems to be the opposite. Can anybody relate to my friend’s case of PE? I would like to hear your experiences and would be honored to also hear your feedback on this matter.
Please let us know…
August 29th, 2011 at 12:23 pm
This is something I thought only happened to me; it would seem that here are more guys with this problem. For me it was because I started getting bored with the girl, and also the familiarity. This did not always happen- I think boredom settles in when you have very little in common with her.
September 3rd, 2011 at 10:23 am
This is exactly the type of PE that I being having. The first time is usually the longer, sometimes is very difficult to ejaculate, but as I get use to her, intercourse gets shorter and shorter, as ejaculation comes sooner each time. I only have PE with my wife or when I’m with a long term relationship with another woman. A thing that I notice is that when I really like a woman, and I stay with for for some time, the more I have sex with her, the more a like her. The sight a a naked woman is like magic to me.
October 19th, 2011 at 2:09 pm
Me2, exactly the same PE. I start to get comfortable after a couple of weeks (or more precisely more attracted to who the girl is as a person) that PE develops.
October 21st, 2011 at 12:46 pm
I’m glad to hear your thoughts and feedback on this matter.
Ozzie’s theory of boredom is interesting
De Leon’s and adelphi’s theory of stronger attraction is interesting as well.
I did some more talking with my friend and he said that he performs better when the encounter is new. Once the sexual act is predictable, he starts to ejaculate prematurely. His penis just becomes more prone to premature ejaculation.
November 28th, 2011 at 10:08 am
This is something of what i face as well. Its the driving force behind why i try to keep jumping from girl to girl. The more i like a girl the more i don’t want to look like an idiot and that insecurity is what causes the issue to begin with. It’s ruined my chances with tons of girls i actually wanted to be with and could have been with. It also has caused me to even run back to girls i care nothing about and maybe don’t even like just to have sex with them because i wouldn’t care if i blew and that consequently keeps me from screwing it up during sex.