Here is a strategy that may work for some of you…

Right before you are about to ejaculate, rather than focusing on something that turns you on (the female’s breasts, vagina, buttocks, legs) at the moment, put your focus on something else that you are part of during the sexual experience. For example, try focusing on the sweat that is dripping from your forehead or the coolness of the air conditioner blowing onto the pores of your lower back. The more specific the focus, the better it is to delay your ejaculation.

Try this out. It may work for some. Have faith and don’t give up to easily. It might take some practice and effort to get it to work just right for you.